Creating a guide for your life will get you to where you want to go.  You are never too old to create and start following your life guide.  There are a few things you need to do.

First, you will need to write down your goals.  Be specific about what you want to accomplish.  Next, you need to be specific about how to get there.  Thirdly, you have to be patient and persistent. 

There will be times where you will be guided in a different direction then you had been headed.  This is your Intuition/Higher Self guiding you down a different path that will lead you back to your original path.  You will have experiences that will help you with your journey.  Be willing to leave the map and go off on a different path that will lead you back to the map further down the road. 

You can create your own life by following your own life guide.  You will need to believe that you can do, be or have anything you want in life.  Nothing is out of reach.   You have to have faith and persistence and determination. 

There will be times when you will have to try something different over and over again.  Perhaps your whole life up until now has been a series of starts and restarts.  Don’t give up on your dreams.  Allow yourself to dream and write down your dreams.   Start following the path and watch your dreams come true.  Amen.


Allow love to permeate every situation.  It will lessen the intensity of the situation, open lines of communication and promote understanding. 

Love runs through each and every person.  It is the underlying current that courses through your veins.  Love is honest and open-eyed.  It does not live in denial or misunderstanding.  Love is bold and courageous.  It is not afraid to show its energy and force. 

Love can change a life.  Love can unite two lives.  Love can heal.  Love can destroy hate.  Love can give strength.  Love is the unifying force of the world.  Love is its own language.  It defies language barriers.  Love is sweet and gentle.  Love is patient and kind.  Love always wants the best.  Love can rule the world.  Amen.


Indecisiveness is a tool that you can use to become decisive.  If and when you have a decision that needs to be made, allowing yourself to pause and reflect upon the decision will get you ready for action to make the decision. 

You may find that your mind goes back and forth on the pros and cons of the decision.  This could become never ending.  But, sooner or later, you have to make the decision, like it or not.  The decision, once made, will spur action.  The action will spur growth and soon you will see how the decision making was a positive thing for your life no matter how difficult it may have been. 

Take the leap and the net will appear.  Don’t allow fear to freeze you like a deer caught in headlights.  Don’t let “what is” drive you crazy as you replay scenarios over and over in your mind.  Don’t let insecurities rule your mind.  Be faithful.  Be determined.  Be precise.  Be decisive and allow the growth to come.  Amen.


LOVE is the purest form of respect that you can give someone.  Love is pure.  Love is light.  Love is ever flowing.  Love does not judge, condemn, disrespect, disapprove, worry or hate.  Love flows through each and every person. 

It is a choice to love or not.  Although love is a natural flowing energy, it is also a choice to allow the energy to flow or to stop it.  Many people decide to stop it and then they allow negative energies to guide their actions and their lives.  They live a life that is less full and positive than someone who allows the flow of love to lead their actions and life. 

There is nothing vulnerable about love, although it is misconceived as that way.  Love is openness.  Love is like a blooming flower that goes from a tight bud to an openly bloomed flower.  Love is an energy that can be felt coursing through your veins – an excitement, a feeling of invincibility.  With love EVERYTHING is possible.  Without love, there is no possibility for peace.  Amen


Motivation = One part desire and one part determination.  Focus on what you want and be determined until you receive it. 

Imagine what life is like as you live it in your mind.  What do you feel?  What does it look like?  Really focus on it until you can actually feel the effects of living your dream life. 

Nothing is impossible.  The only thing that can get in your way and keep your dream from coming is your disbelief.  Throwing any negative resistance on to the image will slow it down, perhaps indefinitely, depending on if you can rise above and beyond the resistance. 

You will need to catch yourself when you are beginning to doubt your desires. You need to change your perspective to a positive one as soon as you notice the resistant thoughts creeping in. This will take mindfulness and persistence. Your dream life is being lived in your dreams, so why not live it in your physical reality?

Stay positive.  Stay hopeful.  Stay motivated.  Stay determined.  Dream big.  Amen.


Allow your Intuition to guide you.  You may wonder where you are headed as you follow your Intuition and the maze that it leads you down, but trust that this is the journey you are supposed to follow.  When you ignore your Intuition, your Ego leads you and the path that you follow is not as quick to get you to your destination.  Follow your passion.  Follow your heart’s desire.  Don’t doubt that you are right where you are supposed to be at this moment. 

Your Intuition is the voice of your Higher Self.  Your Higher Self can be referred to as your Spirit or Soul.  When you are tuning in to your soul’s passion, you are tuning in to what resonates with you and what you are supposed to be doing in this physical life.  Do not deny it by allowing Ego to talk you down out of it.  Don’t push it out of the way because Ego doesn’t think it’s possible. 

Follow your dreams.  Chase your dreams.  Live your dream.  Be faithful.  Be determined.  Believe. Amen.


You will never stay in the same place in life.  Every second of every day you are changing and evolving.  Life is a cycle of change.  That is the nature of life. 

It is natural.  It occurs without needing any action.  It is a living organism within itself.  Life will never stay the same.  You will have ups and downs.  The river of life will be calm and smooth one moment and alive and rapid the next.  The rapids are there to help spur growth.  They move you out of your comfort zone and force you to take action. 

Don’t fear these moments.  Look at them as opportunities to grow and improve – to move forward – with you as the captain.  You can do, be or have whatever you want in life.  Don’t be discouraged.  All that does is slow your ship down.  Be hopeful when you find yourself discouraged.  Don’t be rushed. 

Take your time and savor every moment.  This time won’t come again.  Don’t fear change.  It is coming whether you like it or not.  Go with the flow rather than fighting it.  The change is coming whether you want it to or not.  Amen


Life experiences create your inner psyche that the Ego enjoys feeding.  This inner psyche is controlled by the Ego and often acts like a great bully.  The Ego is good at putting you down better than anyone else, because it is an extension of your consciousness.  Your Ego is brilliant at making you feel insecure, unworthy, unprepared or nervous and scared. 

The life experiences that you live shape your thoughts about yourself and Ego helps to remind you of these thoughts that become inherent and personality molding.  Your memories can easily conjure up an experience that made you feel less than or scared or ill prepared, etc.  This image, thought, memory can replay over and over in your mind until it becomes a belief.  The words that you keep repeating to yourself become beliefs after continuous repetition.  Affirmations are a great way to uplift yourself and to retrain your brain. 

Affirmations can allow you to retrain your brain with the positive equivalent of the negative thought or word.  It takes daily practice, often times during the day, until your brain is rewired to think positive thoughts about yourself rather than negative.  For many, it will be a life-long process, but not an impossibility.  Let your thoughts grow flowers in your mind’s garden, not weeds.  Amen.


Life is short and it comes in fleeting moments.  These moments are shared with loved ones, with strangers, with people who can help you and sometimes people who can hurt you.  These moments are to be cherished because they lend meaning to life. 

Your life experiences help to shape who you become.  Rise up when tragedy strikes.  Uplift when adversity affects another.  Join together; do not break apart.  You are far stronger together than you are alone.  A life of solitude is most often lead by Ego.  A life of union is often led by the Higher Self that is directly connected to Divine Spirit. 

Embrace each other.   Respect your differences.  Have faith in one another.  Have faith in love.  Love can conquer all.  Look brightly towards the future together.  Listen to one another.  Show compassion and understanding.  Appreciate each other.  Give thanks daily for your blessings.  Enjoy life.  Don’t squander it away.  Make the most of this fleeting moment.  Amen.


Appreciate and respect each and every day that is given to you.  This time will never come again so make the most of it.  When life gets mundane, as it certainly does, don’t try to drum up excitement in a negative manner. 

Find positive ways to use your energy and improve yourself.  Doing a self-assessment will help you to find areas of yourself that need improvement and help to spur growth.  Be honest with yourself.  Don’t be in denial.  Don’t ignore the areas that need to be improved.  You need to work at improving the areas that hold you back from your greatest potential.  These areas get in your way of success. 

Most often it is your Ego that is telling you negative things about yourself that you believe and it causes you to subconsciously give up on a dream or procrastinate.  Don’t allow your Ego to take over.  Focus on the positive aspects of yourself.  Focus on the areas that you want to improve, but do so in a positive way.  Strategize and outline how you are going to improve these areas and begin to make the necessary changes.  Start today.