Look at your life through rose colored glasses. There is always, always, always something to be thankful for. No matter how in much of a disarray your life may be at times, it can always come back to a peaceful stream.
Life is like a river and there are always going to be rapids and smooth currents. Change is inevitable. Nothing stays the same. You would not want it to anyways, because that would be mundane. Human beings do not like when things are routine and boring. They long for excitement. Change can bring the excitement that you crave if you look at it as such.
You need to recognize that the river of life won’t always be calm and serene. You will surely come upon some rapids and these rapids are opportunities for growth and expansion. You need the growth and expansion to move along in life. Embrace it rather than offer resistance against it.
Look at your life through rose colored glasses and choose to see the beauty that it possesses. Give thanks every single day for your life and all the blessings that reside there. Take a hard look at the parts that you perceive as less favorable and find blessings within them as well. Amen.