Mistakes are opportunities for GROWTH

Go easy on yourself.  Don’t beat yourself up over mistakes or wrong choices in life.  Every mistake and every wrong choice have led you to where you are today. 

Life is all about trial and error.  There is NEVER any failure: NEVER ANY FAILURE.  YOU most certainly are NOT a failure.  Life is about learning and growing and improving.  When you stop doing that, you have entered back into the spiritual form and spiritual world. 

Follow your mistakes and wrong choices like stepping stones and allow them to guide you to the next part of your life experience.  Look at these moments as opportunities to grow and learn. 

Don’t allow your Ego to chastise you or belittle you.  Make sure that you learn from your mistakes and wrong choices so that you can overcome them and prevent them from reoccurring in the future. Everyone, and We mean EVERYONE, makes mistakes and often times what looks like a mistake becomes the greatest teacher of all.  Have faith.  Hope.  Desire.  Trust.  Belief.  Tenacity.  Willingness to grow.   Desire to learn.  Amen.

Your greatest teacher is LIFE

You know by now, through the amount of life that you have lived, that life isn’t all roses and rainbows.  There are stormy times and there are times when there are dark clouds looming before you that cause uncertainty and fear.  It is important to look at those times with the proper perspective. 

Fear is almost always caused by the unknown.  You don’t know what will happen so you fear what will happen.  You fear not having control.  You fear what you will experience.  Push fear aside.  Look with hope at any impending experiences that may bring fear to the surface.  There is hope for growth and for lessons to be learned.  There is hope for self-improvement and mindfulness. 

Lessons in life come in the form of unsettling events.  These events spur growth and learning.  The greatest teaching moments are the moments that have the greatest impact.  Most often these are the moments that make you the most unpleasant.  They make you take notice.  They make you take a step back.  They make you think.  They make you strategize.  They make you second guess.  They make you notice.  Do not be afraid of the unsettling moments.  Do not shy away.  Go boldly forward to these moments and live them courageously with open eyes and open minds and look at them for growth and lessons.  Analyze the situation and see the lessons that you can learn from.  You will grow the most through moments of trials. 

Nothing is ever the end.  Nothing is ever final, because there is no finality.  Life is eternal.  It is an eternal circle that continues to go around and around and around.  No matter how bad things get in life, you can be assured that they will get better.  It is the yin and yang of life.  It is the fluidity of the circle of life that continues to rotate around and around.  In moments of trials, look hopefully ahead to the peace that awaits there.  During the moments, reach into your Higher Spirit for comfort and peace.  Allow the Light and Love of Divine Spirit to permeate your physical being in a noticeable way.  Amen.

Manifest the life that you want

Manifestation is easier than you think.  You need to focus on what you want and don’t waver from it.  Don’t allow resistance to be introduced which will place your focus in the opposite direction. 

You can do, be or have whatever you want, but you have to believe it.  Belief is what makes it becomes a reality.  We will tell you that it is not easy.  If it was, there would be millions of people walking around as millionaires in the bodies of their dreams. 

What happens is, when resistance is introduced through negative self-chatter that comes from Ego telling you it won’t happen or you aren’t deserving of it, this prevents what you want from arriving.  If you can tune into your Higher Spirit, it will tell you that you are worthy and capable of anything that you want. 

It takes belief, determination and unwavering anticipation.  Anticipate what is coming.  Believe what is coming and don’t give up.  It really is that simple.  Amen.

Ignorance is Bliss

Ignore that which you do not like and that which brings your emotions and your vibrations to a lower level.  Place your focus instead on things that are more pleasing to your psyche that will put you in a higher emotional state and higher vibration.  Placing your focus on things that make you happy and excited or satisfied and thankful will allow you to reach a state that will help all the areas of your life be peaceful and satisfactory. 

Be conscious and recognize when you are experiencing something that is causing you to feel a lower vibration and make a conscious effort to change your vibration by choosing to focus on something more pleasant.  This is not a habit that will come automatically. You will have to hone the skill and be aware in each and every moment.  It will call for you to recognize and control your actions before you make any.  It will call for you to have to recognize what is causing the negative emotion to form and to pull from your library of thoughts a contradictory positive moment that will pull your vibration up.  With practice, this can become second nature, to the point that your lower vibrating thoughts will become nonexistent.  Amen

Life through rose colored glasses

Look at your life through rose colored glasses.  There is always, always, always something to be thankful for.  No matter how in much of a disarray your life may be at times, it can always come back to a peaceful stream. 

Life is like a river and there are always going to be rapids and smooth currents.  Change is inevitable.  Nothing stays the same.  You would not want it to anyways, because that would be mundane.  Human beings do not like when things are routine and boring.  They long for excitement.  Change can bring the excitement that you crave if you look at it as such. 

You need to recognize that the river of life won’t always be calm and serene.  You will surely come upon some rapids and these rapids are opportunities for growth and expansion.  You need the growth and expansion to move along in life.  Embrace it rather than offer resistance against it. 

Look at your life through rose colored glasses and choose to see the beauty that it possesses.  Give thanks every single day for your life and all the blessings that reside there.  Take a hard look at the parts that you perceive as less favorable and find blessings within them as well.  Amen.

Look at your life as a work in progress

Life is about choices.  You can choose to be sad or happy.  You can choose to be pleased or displeased.  You can choose to be positive or negative.  You can choose to be angry or satisfied.  You have control over every emotion that you choose to feel.  Everything is within your power and you have more control than you give yourself credit for. 

Of course, you will automatically feel an emotion that is tied to an experience.  The experience will bring up emotions based on other experiences and emotions such as loss, peace, excitement, past memories, etc.  Once you feel the initial emotion, whether it is positive or negative, you have the choice to continue to feel the initial emotion or move past it and feel better. 

When you are experiencing a negative emotion, you have the power to move beyond it.  Believe it or not.  The question is:  How do you move beyond a negative emotion?  The answer is simple:  by focusing on a positive aspect of the experience.  If you cannot find a positive aspect of the experience to focus on, then you will need to pull another experience/memory forward that easily brings you positive emotions and place your focus there.   This will result in you dousing the fire of the negative emotion as the positive emotion takes over. 

It will take long, hard practice for this action to become automatic, but it is not impossible.  Look at your life as a work in progress.  Take every opportunity to improve.  Improve your emotions and you will improve your life immediately.  Amen

Love yourself as much as you love others

Honor yourself.  Respect yourself.  Love yourself.  Change negative thought patterns that have developed over time and turn them into positive thought patterns. 

Your Ego is an expert at bullying.  Your Ego is an expert at talking you out of many things that your Intuition tells you to do and that your Higher Spirit wants you to do.  Your Ego is a master manipulator.  Don’t allow your Ego to run your life. 

You can overcome the habits and patterns of talking down to yourself.  You need to practice positive lessons to overcome and to turn your habits around.  Affirmations are a good start.  Every day recite Affirmations.  Make a list of loving Affirmations and post to your bathroom mirror.  After you wake up, recite the Affirmations.  Repeat multiple times during the day.

Talk to yourself in a positive and loving way.  Talk to yourself as you would a lover or best friend.  Boost yourself up;  don’t tear yourself down.  Catch yourself when you are thinking negatively and immediately look at yourself or situation in a positive way.  You can always find something positive to focus on.  No matter how small the positive insight is, it will be magnificent to your psyche.  With time you will train your brain to speak lovingly and positive to yourself. 

Allow your Higher Spirit to guide you.  Push Ego aside.  Meditate daily and ground yourself.  Ask the Angels to intervene.  Call upon Archangel Chamuel and ask for the power of self-love and improvement.  Amen.